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Parshat of the Week -- Mishpatim

1/27/2022

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V’eile hamishpatim…. And these are the ordinances. The fact that this week’s parsha begins with the conjunction “and” implies that it is the logical continuation of Parshat Yitro. Indeed it is; but with one major caveat. The focus of last week’s Torah reading was the awesome revelation at Sinai. This week, we begin the legislative portion of the Torah—civil and tort law, laws of property and liability, laws of kindness and ethics. A flurry of 53 commandments in all. But right off the bat, we have a problem. In what seems like an incongruous juxtaposition, the first set of laws deals with the treatment of Jewish bondsmen or servants. Seems a little odd to start off this legislative blitz with the laws of legal slavery when Israel has only been free for a few weeks! The problem only compounds from there. I would estimate that roughly half of the laws presented here—laws of property, agriculture, liability in construction, the Pilgrimage Festivals—would have little or no context for a nation of freed slaves to grasp, nor would many of them even apply until Israel had reached the Promised Land. So, why are they here?

I would suggest a few reasons. If Israel was to simply follow the Divine, doing what they were told, that would fundamentally be no different than being slaves to a master. They need to learn that Judaism is a religion of both pure faith and unquestioning observance. What we do in our daily lives, and the way in which do it, connects us inexorably to Heaven. The reverse is true, as well; G-d is our inspiration to stay on the right path, both ethically and ritually.

To take it to the next level, however, Israel needs to learn that the Mitzvot they are being taught are not random tasks of hard labor which they are being compelled to perform. The laws of keeping Hebrew “slaves” is not a construction which legitimizes slavery. They focus on the moral imperatives of keeping servants and treating them fairly, including freeing them after 6 years of service. The Rabbis offer numerous situations in which offering someone the opportunity for indentured servitude would be a positive act, such as rescuing them from poverty or the ability to pay off a debt.  The laws of property, agriculture, and livestock are Mitzvot which teach the nation that there is a need for communal responsibility once living in a society where, for the first time, they will have their own property and domiciles. These laws are based on equity and fairness, not pointless obedience.

And then, as if to restate His point, G-d returns to the concept of holiness toward the end of the Parsha, reminding the nation to eschew idol worship, promising them deliverance from the Canaanite nations, and prosperity in the land. Israel gets the message. They say together, as one, “All the words that G-d has spoken, we will do, and we will obey.” Then, and only then, do Moshe, Aaron and his sons, and the 70 elders of Israel have a mystical experience where G-d reveals himself (in some form; the Rabbis disagree) in a manner far more visual than that which even Moshe saw before or hence.

Our people have started to learn. From now on, the balance of faith and action is established.
Rabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Yitro

1/21/2022

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There is nothing normal or natural regarding the revelation at Sinai. According to Chazal, our learned sages, even the reference to Israel in the Biblical text in the singular rather than in the plural, shows that at this point in  their growth, they were ready to accept the Torah as one complete nation. And man, did they get it in style. Moshe goes up to the mountain in preparation, the people spend 3 days of purification as they get ready, then they endure the frightening presence of the Almighty, amidst thunder and lightning, hearing the sound of a mighty Shofar echoing the voice of G-d. Moshe alone is atop the mountain, but the unified Israel may not approach the site of the revelation of Torah. Israel is terrified, but inspired.

What a wonderful metaphor for our approach to Torah today.

The study of Torah seems like an impenetrable wall of scholarship and understanding. But that is not so. While the words of G-d speak to us, seemingly, with thunder and lightning, they are also whispering to us in a way that speaks directly to our hearts. So, for you and your families to discuss over Shabbos dinner, here is a guide, in the spirit of Parshas Yitro, to bring the 10 Statements (ok, commandments) home to you:

1.       How do you characterize the Almighty? What do you recognize as the ineffable and indescribable force in your life?

2.       What forms of idolatry, literal or figurative are you in danger of worshiping? And how can you avoid them?

3.       Think about your oaths, your promises. Especially if you preface them with…. “I swear  to….”, what does it say about you if you cannot fulfill them?

4.       Shabbat. Heschel’s Oasis in Time. Who cannot live without taking at least one day away from looking down at the grindstone of daily life and looking up instead? Otherwise, we’re running in circles. Hope to see you for a breather next Shabbos. Email me what you made special for dinner.

5.       Your parents are solely responsible for creating you, and, at the very least, you should return the favor. Without prejudice, those who gave you life deserve your life blessing.

6.       Chazal wonder why a prohibition against murder is even found in this “top ten.” It seems obvious. I would suggest that the commandment is designed to empower us to avoid any situation where we would consider homicide an appropriate remedy for a social condition, or even justify it as a legitimate punishment.

7.       The bond between a husband and wife is sacred. While marriage doesn’t always work out the way we think it should, especially once there are kids involved, I refer you to Commandment #3.

8.       Chazal equates theft with kidnaping. The Mechilta equates the 8th commandment with the 3rd; misstating ownership is equivalent with making a false oath. I’d go in a different direction—theft can be physical, intellectual, psychological, or experiential. We all have our rights to our property, thoughts, ideas, and realities, for good or not

9.       There is no reason to lie about any situation. Nor to bend the truth. If you have a differing opinion, state it. Argue about it. Maybe you’ll teach someone; maybe they’ll teach you. But don’t try to engage someone else in a falsehood.

10.   A prohibition against coveting another’s property seems impossible; who can see someone else’s incredible car or house and not think, “I’d like that!” Rabbi S.R. Hirsch recognizes that the last Commandment is a most challenging one; it could only be given by the Almighty, since the direction of thought could not be ordained by a mortal. I would suggest that this is the most complicated and difficult of the whole 10. The discipline which is required to restrain our thoughts and not covet that which belongs to others is really hard. But this is a commandment which comes not from the top down, but from the bottom up. It’s an imperative to make the most of what we have, rather than trying to redo ourselves over in the image of someone else. Learn how to be happy and content with who, and where you are. G-d will advance you as you deserve. You need to be square with yourself first.

 
Rabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Beshalach

1/13/2022

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Weren’t the signs and wonders that Israel had witnessed enough to cement their faith and prevent this case of national amnesia? Or did Israel really have no short-term memory, sense of gratitude, or tact to ask for something instead of complaining about its lack?

But wait. Consider how G-d and Moshe respond to the whining people. At Marah, G-d shows Moshe a tree, which when tossed into the water, sweetens it. The hungry nation is satiated with Manna in the morning and quail in the evening. Moshe strikes the rock at Horeb, which then produces water. And after the unprovoked and unwarranted attack by Amalek, Israel, led by Joshua and empowered by G-d, is successful in defending themselves, provided Moshe demonstrably keeps his arms aloft. All of the crises in Beshalach are resolved in Israel’s favor. They are not the hallmarks of an ungrateful nation. They are instead the growing pains of a newly minted people, struggling to shed their slave mentality. Going forward, they will certainly have their moments, but these are not among them. They still have much to learn. Hunger, thirst, and vulnerability are normal occurrences in the course of daily life. If Israel wants to avoid them, they have to process a few new realities. Marah teaches them that you can’t just wait for G-d to do everything for you. Sometimes you need to cut down a tree. The Manna which fed them for 40 years in the wilderness taught Israel that G-d doesn’t just take care of the big miracles like plagues and splitting seas. The Almighty also cares about the little daily things that we need to survive. At Horeb, water (a metaphor for Torah) appears when Moshe follows G-d’s directions. Remember what’s going to happen when he tries that trick later on in the Torah, but doesn’t read the instructions when he does so. The assault from Amalek is in direct response to the attitude displayed by Israel, not the validity of their complaints. The miraculous delivery is a way of reminding Israel that G-d always has their back; they only need to maintain their faith.

The Children of Israel are, at this point, like a child. Learning, growing, testing, experimenting, and maturing. Their long journey begins here, and continues, in us, to this day.
Rabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Bo

1/7/2022

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In a way, one can almost feel sorry for Pharaoh. As we read about the final three plagues, he comes across as a tragic hero who has lost everything; like Oedipus or King Lear. When the story began, he was the omnipotent ruler of a mighty, prosperous nation, able and willing to enslave an entire people. Little by little, G-d’s plagues have worn him down. The monarch who had ridiculed G-d, negotiated in bad faith with Moses and Aaron (all right, there was someone hardening his heart), insisted on keeping hostages of people or property if Israel went to pray in the desert, now stands alone. First his magicians deserted him, then his court and advisors told him that they’d had enough and begged him to let Israel go. By the time the final plague rolls around, not only has his entire nation abandoned him, but they have switched sides, looking favorably upon the former slaves, and willingly giving them valuable going away gifts. Rashi suggests that during the plague of darkness, Israel took the opportunity to check out the Egyptian’s homes to see what they should ask for when they left. Other commentators say that when Egypt realized that Israel had been in their homes under cover of darkness but had taken nothing, they began to view the nation with kindness. Now, fearful of the enormity of the Death of the Firstborn, according to Mechilta, when Israel would ask for a particular item, an Egyptian would give him a gift of an extra one…as long as they left and took the plague with them.

So now, Pharoah, alone and abandoned, runs through the darkened streets of Egypt trying to find Moses and Aaron, not only to grant them permission to leave, but also asking for their blessing. Having fallen as low as he possibly could, he doesn’t realize that he is the only firstborn who will be spared—so he can learn his lesson. He’s terrified as to his potential fate. He also doesn’t realize that in next week’s parsha, at the Reed Sea, his final act of arrogance will lead to his complete downfall.

The timeless lesson taught here, in countless works of classical literature, and sadly in events both historical and contemporary, is that no one--not even the most powerful leader, authority, or public figure—is free to rule without a mandate from G-d, and the consent and support of those they are charged with serving. To do so will result in their world shrinking around them like Pharaoh’s; until they are the only ones left suffering in it, leaving behind all those who were hurt by arrogance, hunger for power, and selfishness. Pharaoh’s long downfall began with xenophobia, prejudice, and blind personal ambition. Too many people in positions of power today worship those deities as well. Let us pray that they (and we) can find inspiration in G-d, not in the gods they make, so we can all live in peace in a world without the plagues we can create so easily.

Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Vaera

12/31/2021

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Our parsha this week begins with an editorial conundrum. What is the name of G-d? Chazal (our blessed sages) seem to tell us that the ambiguity in the approaches to the Divine name are all based on the dynamic relationship between each individual patriarch, their unique relationship with G-d, rooted in the specifics of the history and communication between them. Maybe the Name is connected to the ineffable name which is revealed to Moshe. But what is that name? Depends where you’re coming from. Is G-d to be named with the un-namable, or with some sort of unique personal connection? Is G-d a conceptual construct for you? A physical being that you observe and worship, but don’t really understand? Or the opposite; you get the liturgy, but not the theology?

Therein lies the beauty of Judaism. 

In this week’s parsha, G-d says to Moshe that He has revealed himself to the Patriarchs, has understood their travails, and will rescue them. How great is our hope, and how deep is our trust?

We prey to a Deity whose name we can’t pronounce and can’t read. Our G-d is accessible and simultaneously inaccessible. G-d wishes for our embrace, but who will all too easily slip from our grasp.

It takes faith and concentration to get our hands around something which resists holding.  Even more so to embrace it with our minds.

Vaera…and I (G-d) appeared. Every generation gives us a unique connection to G-d. Let us make that connection anew, and strengthen it with each passing of the years.

Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Shemot

12/24/2021

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Our foray into the second book of the Chumash begins with a linguistic conundrum; why does the text read “And these are the names of the children of Israel” as opposed to simply saying, “These are the names….?’ Many of the m’forshim (commentators) connect this verse with the parallel verses in Genesis which introduce or enumerate the genealogy or ancestry of our predecessors. But if the waning chapters of B’reshit (Genesis) are to be tied to the opening chapter of Exodus (Shemot), why repeat the genealogy?

The commentaries give us several reasons. B’nai Israel are transitioning into a new  phase of existence; they will be enslaved, but will then be freed. As his beloved people, G-d recounts their names as a way of showing His love for us, prior to describing the national trauma which befell us. Rashi offers that the leaders of this generation are listed as exemplars, since the fealty of their descendants was not guaranteed. Other commentators and the Midrash go even further, likening the twelve sons of Jacob to stars whose light will only be seen after the brilliance of Jacob’s sun has been extinguished. Only then will their potential and accomplishments be seen, since, as the sun’s light suppresses that of the stars, so too did the light of Jacob suppress that of his descendants. Absent his brilliance, they (we) were free to achieve our full potential.

Therein lies our challenge. When our skies darken, we must use the light of our stars to illuminate our path. Any and every glimmer of hope or inspiration can be showing a path to accomplishment. Have you fallen down? Look up, because you now have a new perspective on life. Have you suffered a loss? You now have a new way to plug a hole in someone else’s life experience.

Remember the names, the Shemot, of those who came before us. Each person, each personality, and each star shines down upon us and gives us strength and wisdom. Let their light shine, equally between those who dominated the light and those whose subtlety gave meaning to the darkness. On this shortest Shabbat of the year, let’s give meaning to the darkness. Perhaps we can be inspired by what we are meant to see as much as what we can see.

Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Vayechi

12/17/2021

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As we finish the book of B’reshit (Genesis), we encounter a familiar theme which has woven itself into the fabric of our national pre-history: Blindness.

From our earliest generations, the inability to see or “see” has been part of the story. Adam was blind to, and has no reaction to, the enmity between his sons. Same thing with Abraham and his sons. Isaac,
 famously, can’t tell the difference between his sons and gives the primary blessing to Jacob over Esav. But now we reach Jacob. On his deathbed, wanting to bless Joseph’s children and promote them in status, he is physically too blind to recognize them in person, but spiritually and prophetically astute enough to reverse his hands so that Efraim receives the greater blessing over his brother Menashe. This, of course, echoes the reversals of merit over birth order which we have seen multiple times in B’reshit. But the last of the original patriarchs continues with his farewell poem to his children, where he breaks the mold of blind-as-metaphor-for-ignorant. Due to his failing sight, Jacob may not have recognized his grandchildren, but he can certainly see through their uncles in terms of character. The Rabbis elevate Jacob’s insights to the level of prophecy; connecting them to future events which occurred later within the tribes bearing their names. Such is the power of a blind person with G-d given vision.

In Greek mythology, and echoed in literature through the generations, the character of Tiresias is viewed as the ironic epitome of the blind man with the greatest powers of prophecy and insight. While beset by human limitations, he (well, they, since the myth also has them living as a woman) is able to learn , grow, and become influential. Let’s learn from their example. If we can be aware of what we cannot see, we can learn volumes about what we must accomplish. By shining a light into the dark corners of our lives, we can illuminate untold generations to come. The famous hymn says that “I once was blind.” I’m convinced that that fate is one of choice. However we are able, we should want to have clear vision. What we may lack in sight can and should be overcome by insight. Then we will truly see.


Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Vayigash

12/10/2021

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In chapter 46 of Genesis, as the Children of Israel prepare to reunite in Egypt to wait out the famine, the Torah takes the opportunity to give us a genealogy and census of the family. Jacob’s sons and their descendants are listed, divided according to their mothers. According to the Torah, there were 70 who made the journey. The problems with the math start almost immediately. To begin with, the text only lists 69 names. Of them, only two women are named; Leah’s daughter Dina, and Asher’s daughter Serach. How is it possible that of 53 grandchildren and great-grandchildren, only one of them was a girl? The Rabbis and the Midrash offer numerous commentaries and explanations. Among them: the 70th soul was Jacob himself. Alternatively, the Divine Spirit which accompanied the family on their journey rounded up the threescore and ten. A fascinating commentary, first mentioned in the Talmud and expounded by Rashi, is that the 70th was Yocheved, the mother of Moshe, who, according to the story, was conceived inhe o Canaan and born upon the family’s arrival in Egypt. This would have made her 130 years old when Moshe was born and would add yet another miracle to his lineup. Other Rabbis dispute this assertion, however, wondering how the Torah missed this little fact, opening up a discussion about the nature of miracles and whether every supernatural occurrence needs to mentioned, since every moment of every day is inherently a miracle. Other commentaries dispute who is actually counted, since Joseph and his two sons were already in Egypt, so they technically didn’t make the journey. As to why only two women are listed (and various disagreements as to whether they are counted), presumably, the Torah is holding to its normal style of only mentioning the males in a genealogy, unless there is a female who figures prominently in the story. The Midrash and Talmud provide a number of possibilities as to why Serach is singled out, including that she was the one who gently told Jacob that Joseph was alive and that she lived until the Exodus whereupon she showed Moshe the location of Joseph’s tomb, warranting entry to The World to Come alive, like the prophet Elijah.

I would suggest another possibility for either the “rounding up” or the lousy math, take your pick. In the Torah and elsewhere, 70 is traditionally a number of completeness, of wholeness, being comprised of 7 (as in the days of creation) times 10 (Commandments, Minyan, etc.). Indeed, after all the divisiveness which has occupied this family up to now, the fact that the family is reunited, prosperous, and at relative peace is noteworthy. Consider this: this is the fifth time in the Torah that the phrase B’nai Yisrael, (the Children of Israel) is used in reference to the actual children of the original Israel, Jacob. The name will be used in this fashion only twice more; thereafter it will refer to the nation, not the family. That’s right. A total of 7.

Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Miketz/Shabbat Chanukah/Rosh Chodesh

12/3/2021

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More often than not, Miketz is read on Chanukah. The confluence of the two is a calendrical coincidence, but not without significance, Consider: At the core of this point of the biblical narrative is the desire to primarily overcome a famine, but also to re-unify the family of Jacob into one holistic corpus which can move forward, unified, as a group, to the future. The Maccabees were fighting an international force which desired to deprive them of their access to the rituals and practices which defined them as a people. The true miracle was that a small group of upstarts were able to defeat an accomplished army. One day’s worth of oil lasting for eight was the cherry on the cake, or the sour cream on the latke, which made it all worth the effort.

But look at the symbolism: The Greeks wished to upend our normality by forbidding our basic practices: keeping kosher, circumcision, traditional worship of the Divine. They attempted to seduce us into their secular practices by replacing ours with theirs. The Maccabees were instrumental in combining the two; creating a paradigm for what has become a dual structure, where we live within and without in total harmony. Chanukah is not a microcosm which celebrates a short term victory. It’s a holiday which celebrates opening a door of invitation and involvement, inviting all to enter. Where there was exclusion, we invite participation. Where there was division, we open the door to partnership. Jacob’s family comes back together as the Jewish family restores their practices and values. As you light your candles in the waning days of this Chanukah, do so in the spirit of connecting the days of Chanukah past to the days of Chanukah yet to come. May one day’s effort have eight-fold effects.


Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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Parshat of the Week -- Vayeshev

11/25/2021

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There can be little doubt as to why Joseph’s brothers don’t care for him. The arrogant youth (he’s 17) has become the de facto firstborn, displacing Reuven, due to Jacob’s favoritism. Young Joseph has the audacity to share his dreams of future superiority with the entire family, including Jacob, who curiously admonishes, but does not correct, his son. The brothers were understandably jealous. We know what happens next. Some time passes, and Joseph is sent to check on his brothers who are pasturing the sheep near Shechem. Seeing him from afar, the brothers conspire to kill him and toss the body in a pit, but Reuven convinces the others to spare Joseph, intending to return later and free him. At Yehuda’s suggestion, Joseph is instead sold into slavery, passing through multiple hands until he ends up in Egypt where he lays the groundwork for the next part of our national experience. Reading between the lines, however, there are a number of pieces which don’t add up. First off, why would the brothers be grazing the flocks near Shechem? After having deceived, circumcised, and murdered all the male inhabitants of the city, that wasn’t exactly friendly territory for the Israelites. Knowing his brothers’ dislike of him, why did Joseph even go? Did he think they forgot his arrogance? And why are only two of the conspirators named?

We know that the brothers will be the eventual leaders of the twelve tribes (trust me, I’ve read the book). Sforno points out that all twelve tribes will ultimately be recognized together as stones on the High Priest’s breastplate. Surely, if they were unworthy, they would not have merited the honor.  Sforno makes a fascinating suggestion. The brothers were afraid of Joseph, not jealous of him. They had ventured into dangerous territory to avoid him, fearful that he was conspiring against them, using his influence to discredit or kill them, not the other way around. When they say, “Then we will see what will become of his dreams! (Gen 37:20)”, the brothers are not speaking sarcastically; they’re actually afraid that the dreams
will come true. They try to find ways to eliminate the threat indirectly so as not to be technically guilty of murder. According to various sources, they try to kill him with arrows (so they can claim that they were not physically present) and with wild dogs (“it was them, not us), and when neither of these work, a group of unnamed brothers finally suggest killing him by hand. Reuven and Yehuda, however, are named because they have already started to learn and grow. They realize that it was, indeed, foolish for Joseph to venture out to find them, far away from home and their father’s sight and protection. Reuven, at least, suspects that he must have a different motive. Indeed he does. Joseph wanders around in the fields seeking them out at his own peril, fulfilling his promise to Jacob; thereby honoring their father.  According to tradition, it was for that same reason that Reuven hadn’t been present to save Joseph; it was his turn to go home and care for Jacob. The family dynamic is going to get more complicated before it gets better, but it is here that the seeds of healing are planted, and the ones who are starting to show signs of leadership and maturity are aptly rewarded with their names.

Shabbat ShalomRabbi/Hazzan David B. Sislen
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